You can explain your patterns better than most people you know. So why did you still say yes when every part of you meant no?

WORTHY is a 12-month membership for women who've carried everyone else and, somewhere along the way, lost track of themselves.

This is the year you stop knowing it and start living it.

Maybe it looks like this…

You said yes to hosting again, and you resented it before you'd even hung up the phone.

You're furious that nobody helps… and you never actually asked.

One comment at breakfast and your whole afternoon was gone.

You finally asked for what you needed, then spent two days apologising for it.

You and your partner have had the same argument so many times you could play both parts.

You've read the books. You've listened to the podcasts. You can name the pattern while you're in the middle of it.

And you still do it.

Here's what I want you to hear: that is not a character flaw. Knowing something and living it are two different things. Insight lives in your head. Real change has to happen deeper than that, and it needs time, repetition, and people around you who notice when you slip back into old ways.

That's what WORTHY is for.

[Doors are open now and close on 1 November, 2026]

Yes I want a seat at WORTHY

Welcome to WORTHY.

WORTHY is a 12-month group membership for women.

Every month you get a short video module with a workbook, a live hot-seat coaching call with me, a group hypnosis session, and a private community of women doing the same work.

It's a place to get honest with yourself, witnessed by women who are doing the same. Brutal honesty, wrapped up in a safe space.

Meet your coach:

Martine Kotze

Hi, I'm Martine.

For most of my life I made myself smaller so I wouldn't be a burden. I was a stay-at-home mom and the backbone of my family, and I'm proud of that. What I gave mattered.

But somewhere along the way, I disappeared. There was a day I looked in the mirror and didn't recognise the woman looking back.

I had believed love would be enough. It wasn't. So I did the work. I studied, read, worked with my own coach, and looked hard at my part of the dance. I changed my steps, and that gave everyone around me something new to respond to.

That's what I teach now. I'm a relationship and self-worth coach, trained through the Robbins-Madanes Coaching Institute, and a Certified 5-PATH® Hypnosis Professional. For the last seven years I've helped women and couples understand the patterns underneath their relationships.

I don't want to be your crutch. For me, success is the day the change belongs to you.

Learn more about Martine

Before I tell you all about this membership,
let's make sure you're a good fit...

WORTHY is for you if…

✔ You hold everything together for everyone, and somewhere in there you stopped recognising yourself.

✔ You give and give, then feel guilty the moment you want something back.

✔ Your boundaries fall apart the second someone looks disappointed.

✔ You feel disconnected in your relationship and you're tired of waiting for the other person to change first.

✔ You've already done a lot of inner work and you want it to finally stick.

✔ You're tired, but you're not done. There's still a spark in there.

It's probably not the right fit if…

You're looking for someone to confirm that everyone else is the problem. In WORTHY we look at our own part, with kindness and without blame.
You want a quick fix. WORTHY lasts a year on purpose.
You're in crisis, or in a relationship where you don't feel safe. Please reach out to a qualified therapist or specialist first. You deserve that level of care.

WHAT CHANGES?

A few months from now, it looks like this:

✨ You make a decision and don't spend the next five days feeling guilty about it.

✨ You say yes and mean it. And when you mean no, you say no.

✨ You ask for what you need without rehearsing the other person's reaction in your head first.

✨ You feel the same old fight starting… and you step out of it and respond differently.

✨ Someone compliments you and you say "thank you." Full stop.

✨ You take care of yourself without feeling like you have to earn it first.

And the deepest one: you become someone you're willing to know honestly, stand beside fully, and stop abandoning when life gets uncomfortable.

Yes I want my seat in Worthy - $99/m

Inside Worthy you will learn to:

Make decisions without days of guilt afterwards

Say no without over-explaining

Take care of yourself without having to earn it

Ask for what you need, calmly and clearly

Step out of the same old fight

Trust yourself again

Why WORTHY is Different

For seven years I've worked with women and couples. And I kept seeing the same thing.

A client would have a breakthrough on a call. She'd see the pattern clearly. Three weeks later, the old pattern was back, and she understood it perfectly while it was happening.

Insight doesn't always equal integration.

So I built WORTHY around the three things that make change stick:

1. Time. Twelve months, one theme at a time, so each shift has room to settle into your everyday life.

2. The part of you underneath your thinking mind. I'm a Certified 5-PATH® Hypnosis Professional. Every month we have a group hypnosis session to work with the patterns that live deeper than insight can reach.

3. Being witnessed. Women who see you, cheer you on, and lovingly notice when you start disappearing again. Safety here is never permission to hide.

"It doesn't hit you all at once, but when you start to absorb and practice the concepts… the end result is simply game changing." S.J., WORTHY member

At the heart of it all is radical responsibility, which means looking at your own part without blame. You don't have to make anyone else wrong to take your power back. We stop standing at the fence explaining what's wrong with someone else's garden, and start tending our own.

I am ready to say YES (payment plans below)

"Taking Martine’s course was an incredible experience. The content is interesting and delivered in a way that felt easy to take in. The group format really helped me feel seen and understood."

Testimonial by S.L

What can you expect in the modules?

How WORTHY Works

Every month inside WORTHY:

One module: 2–3 short videos you can watch in your own time, plus a workbook
A live hot-seat coaching call with me, recorded in case you can't make it
A live group hypnosis session, also recorded
Practices and prompts in our Kajabi community to help you bring each month into everyday life
WhatsApp support between calls
Bonus workshops and special events during the year

What your week looks like: about an hour of self-study, in whatever pockets of time work for you, plus the live calls when you can make them. You can always go deeper. How far you take it is up to you.

What happens when you click:

Choose your plan, check out, and your login arrives by email straight away. Start with the Welcome module and fill in your intake form. That's your first step.

All sales are final. Because you get full access the moment you join, WORTHY has no refunds. If you're not sure it's right for you, book a call with me first. I'd rather we talk than have you guess.

Worthy 12 Week VIP mentorship

$4799 one time payment

The most personal way through WORTHY

For the woman who wants me beside her, week to week. Especially if your relationship is in a painful place right now and you need support while it's happening

Everything in the WORTHY Membership
A private 1:1 coaching call with me every week for 12 weeks
Direct WhatsApp access to me

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Worthy 12-Month membership (one time payment)

$999 one payment for year access

Worthy 12-Month membership Payment Plan

$99/m

The versatile choice

12 months inside WORTHY, with full access to all 12 modules
Monthly live hot-seat coaching call (recorded)
Monthly group hypnosis session (recorded)
Workbooks and integration practices
Private community in Kajabi
WhatsApp support
Bonus workshops and special events