Rediscover Your True Self with 'The Worthy Identity Reset'

A live Identity and Hypnosis workshop with Martine Kotze

 

You may feel broken, but what if you're being called for more?

 

A 90-minute live hypnosis workshop for the woman who feels the drift away from their true self, and is ready to come home to who she actually is.

 

Wednesday, 3 June 2026 · 6:30pm EST · Live on Zoom · Replay included

 

Early bird pricing $49.99 for the first 20 seats only. Then $99/p.
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SW

I would highly recommend the course with Martine, she is professional, caring but also strict. To be able to sit with her and my partner and talk about difficult things was great, she helped us to see each other’s point of view.

Anonymous member

I would recommend this course to anyone feeling out of sorts with themselves, their relationships (not just romantic, but family or work wise) or their general lives. As woman we are so critical of ourselves and how we function that we end up putting ourselves into these little boxes. The course opened my box and let me allow myself to explore a different life, or at least a different view point on some areas in my life.

KM

Martine is very good at this. She has a very comforting and supportive approach. She asks thoughtful questions and that helped us to open up and really dive deep into our relationship and how we communicate.

The Gap

You came here because something has been off.

 Maybe you can't name it. Maybe you've been trying to name it for months.

It might look like this: you're successful on paper but you feel hollow. You're in a relationship and you feel alone in it. You wake up and you're tired before the day starts. You catch yourself in conversations being someone you don't quite recognize. You scroll past a picture of yourself from years ago and you think: who was she. Where did she go?

Or maybe it's quieter than that. Maybe it's just a low hum underneath your life that says, there is more than this. I am meant for more than this. I just don't know what to do with that.

Here is what I want you to hear, before we go any further:

That drift is not a malfunction. It is not a sign that you are broken or ungrateful or doing it wrong. The drift is your soul summoning you.

The Reframe

What if it isn't falling apart? What if it's falling into place?

 Here is what I have learned in the work I do;  both as a relationship coach and as a certified hypnotist:

When you outgrow your current beliefs, when you outgrow the smaller version of yourself you have been performing to be safe, it does not feel like growth in real time. It feels like everything is unraveling. Relationships shift. The body asks for different things. The work that used to satisfy you starts to feel small. The people around you might pull back, get confused, or get resentful — because you are no longer the version of you they signed up for.

That unraveling is not a sign that you are doing it wrong. It is a sign it is working.

The integration

This 90-minute live hypnosis workshop is for the woman who is done performing and ready to come home.

This is not another mindset workshop. This is not another reel telling you to journal more or affirm harder.

This is a guided experience that uses hypnosis, the same modality I use in private 1:1 work with clients who pay thousands, to walk you through three pieces of work in 90 minutes:

First, we look at who you are right now. With love and without judgment, you take stock. Where you're performing. What you tolerate. The patterns you keep finding yourself in. You can't come home to a woman you refuse to look at, so we look first.

Then, we name the woman you are returning to. Not the polished, aspirational, Instagram version. The real one. The part of you that knew before you forgot. We write the specific beliefs she holds — the ones that are yours, not generic affirmations you've heard a hundred times and didn't believe.

And then we do the hypnosis. Together. Live. I guide you into the part of you that lives below the noise, and we install the beliefs you just named. We meet the part of you that knew before you forgot, and we bring her home.

You leave the workshop with three named beliefs you actually feel in your body. A somatic anchor you can use anytime the old performing self tries to come back. And the unmistakable felt sense that she has been here the whole time.

You are not becoming her. You are coming home to her.

"What if it isn't falling apart? What if it's falling into place?"  Imagine a Life Lived authentically, embracing Your true identity.  Freedom, peace and your path to true joy.

 

 

 

Signing up for 'The Worthy Identity Reset' is your first step towards this dream.

About Martine

Hi, I'm Martine.

 I'm a relationship coach and certified 5-Path® hypnotist based in the Turks and Caicos Islands.

I work with women who are ready to become;  not survive, not get even, not just cope. Become.

Women who have outgrown the version of themselves they've been performing and are ready to come home to who they actually are.

My work sits at the intersection of two things: the practical (how do you actually communicate, how do you actually set a boundary, how do you actually run a relationship and a life from your fullness) and the deep (what beliefs are quietly running you, what part of you have you been performing without realizing it, who were you before the world told you to be smaller).

I do this work because I have lived it. Because I know what it feels like to wake up one day and realize the woman you've been performing is not the woman you are. And I know what it feels like to come home to her, not in some dramatic shattering, but in a quiet, grounded, finally kind of way.

That is what I am here to walk you back to.

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Frequently Asked Questions:

 

What if I can't make it live?

You'll get the replay within an hour of the workshop ending and it's yours forever. The hypnosis works just as well in the replay, many women actually go through the hypnosis multiple times. That said, if you can be there live, be there live. Something happens in the room together that is hard to describe.

I've never done hypnosis. Will it work for me?

Yes. Hypnosis is a natural state, you go into it every day without realizing. You don't need to "be good at it." You just need to be willing. I will guide you the entire way. You can come out at any moment by opening your eyes. There will be a thorough briefing on the hypnosis in your welcome email.

Do I need to be religious or spiritual to do this work?

No. I will use the word God in this workshop because that is my reference. If a different word lands more truthfully for you — Source, the Universe, your highest knowing, your soul — let it be that. The language matters less than the relationship. Bring whatever framework is yours.

Is this for women going through a breakup or an affair?

This work is for any woman who feels the drift;  the sense that there is more, that she has been performing a smaller version of herself, that she is being called to become who she actually is. Some of those women are in hard relationship moments. Many are not. The work is the work either way.

What is Worthy?

At the end of the workshop, I'll briefly introduce you to Worthy; my membership for women who want to keep doing this work as a way of life. There's no pressure. The workshop stands alone. Worthy is the door if you want what we did together to be a beginning, not an event.

Can I get a refund?

The workshop is non-refundable, but the replay is yours forever, so you'll never lose what you paid for. If something comes up and you can't attend, you'll still get the recording and the workbook.

Will I be on camera? Will other people see me?

Cameras are optional. Many women turn theirs off, especially during the hypnosis. The room is soft. There is no performing here; that's the whole point. However if you are someone that likes to hide this will be the perfect moment to practice putting your camera on and sharing your beautiful energy :)

Pricing and investment

Early bird pricing — $49.99 Available for the first 20 seats only.

After the first 20 seats are taken, the price moves to $99. This is the only time the workshop will be offered at this price.

What's included:

  • 90-minute live workshop with hypnosis
  • The Returning Worksheet (6-page PDF)
  • Lifetime access to the replay
  • Hand-on-heart somatic anchor (yours to use forever)
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She has been here the whole time.

 

You did not lose her. You went away to keep yourself safe in a world that didn't know what to do with her fullness.

She is waiting. She is not angry. She is not disappointed. She has only been waiting, because she always knew you would come back for her.

The drift you've been feeling is the part of her that knew before you forgot, calling you home.

This workshop is the door.

I'll see you in there.

— Martine

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