The Connection Lab
A comprehensive and intensive 10 week couples course to take your relationship from surviving to thriving.
The Connection Lab is a one of a kind program that allows you to follow a proven system to replace bad communication habits and cultivate a space where both you and your partner feels honored and supported. With these tools in your pocket you can get back to feeling loved and desired without getting stuck in old patterns.
Lets talk about who this is for:
You don't know how you got here but somehow you find yourself wondering "Is this really it?" Your relationship used to be exciting and you were best friends, now you find yourself lonely and uninspired to try to rekindle the flame. You are tired. You are constantly bickering and having the same fights over and over. You hardly ever have fun like you used to.
Is it too late? Is there anything left to save?
The problems you may be experiencing :
- You are having the same arguments over and over again and can't seem to get unstuck from the predictable fights you constantly have.
- You feel resentful because you constantly have to nag and complain to get anything done. Some days you feel invisible.
- You don't know how to have difficult conversations and you just avoid it.
- You have not had sex for at least 3 months or longer and you feel like every day the distance between you is widening.
- Your partner hears you but just doesn't understand you and this leaves you feeling hopeless that you will ever find your way back to each other again
Relationships are hard and we get it wrong. Not because we intentionally try to, but because we do things that we don't realize hurt our relationships.
In the Connection Lab I help you see the blindspots that keep you stuck. I help you untangle the way you talk to each other so that you can bring out the best in each other.
Here are some mistakes you may be making right now:
- You keep doing the same thing in your relationship, so nothing changes and you can't grow beyond what you currently do.
- You are not honest in your conversations or avoid certain uncomfortable conversations and never get to the root of what really troubles you.
- You have certain expectations of the other person, but communicating the things you need in a way that you never get what you want.
- You focus on the things your partner needs to change for you to feel happy in the relationship.
Content is delivered through 8 pre-recorded sessions and one private 90min Live call each week.
By the end of this program you will have:
New communication skills
When you lack effective communication skills you stand the risk of being misunderstood and when you repeatedly get misunderstood your trust erodes.
Know how to fight smart
Conflict is good for relationship if you know how to use the conflict to build connection instead of tearing it down. By learning to fight smarter you give your relationship depth.
A renewed love and connection.
You'll get tools to help you rebuild trust, which will spark a renewed love and desire for your partner and your relationship will flourish.
"This course has had a massive impact on our relationship creating more love and understanding, nearly a 100% reduction in unnecessary arguments and provided us with eye opening tools to continue using to improve every aspect of our relationship and family life."
"This course changed our relationship in the most beautiful way. I thought this would be "hard" and once we both surrendered to the process it was easy and made me want more because each module and conversation with Martine brought me closer with my partner and showed me the power of generous love vs conditional love."
But above all else The Connection Lab will give you the space to have difficult conversations with ease. It will show you exactly what is required for long term relationships to last.
ENROLL WITH ONE TIME PAYMENT
To help you manage the cost I also provide a payment plan.
ENROLL WITH PAYMENT PLANThe exact modules that make up the course:
- Relationship Mindset. We start off by evaluating your relationship and where you are now. Then we look at Radical Responsibility and how each person in the couple take responsibility going forward.
- Creating Love and Desire. We look at each person's strengths and how masculine and feminine energy can strengthen your relationship. We also look at the pillars of love and desire and how you can create more intimacy in long term relationships.
- Communication that Connects. We look at different communication styles and identify each person's preferred style of communication. We also learn the art of listening and identify the 4 negative communication patterns in relationships.
- How to manage Conflict. Conflict in relationships is the greatest gift if we know how to use it to build our relationship instead of tearing it down. In this module we learn how to fight smarter and also look at what the underlying factors of conflict is.
Meet Martine
There was a time I felt just like you. My marriage was in crisis and I didn't know if we would survive. I felt so lost, so unseen and misunderstood and made a promise that I would make something beautiful from my mess. Because of this experience I know what it takes to turn a relationship around and today I teach couples how to really communicate. I help them by listening to what is going on underneath the issues that present themself. There is no greater ripple effect than saving a marriage and I would be honored to be on this journey with you.
" It really opened a part of me that was defensive and closed off.
"A beautiful balance of keeping us both accountable but able to explore what is happening in the present."
